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1.
Dressing: Beg, borrow or steal something that says, “wow.” And,
if you don’t know, ask. Torn, outstretched or bright patterns are
a no-no.
2. Grooming: Besides clean teeth, breath, hair and smell, a man’s
best weapon is a clean shave or groomed beard. A woman’s is mascara.
3. Acting: Be willing to change a bad subject to keep the mood flowing
upwards. If you’re having a bad day take two aspirins and
shut up about it.
4. Communicating: Be aware of the speed you talk,
ask and answer
questions. Plus, always look and listen like you’re interested.
5. Charming: It’s always right to be sweet, attentive and
charming. If you have “it” use it, if you don’t,
learn how to get “it.”
6. Beginning: Start with
a smile and good eye contact. Men: firm (not overbearing)
handshake. Women: extend the elbow while
shaking
hands.
7. Opening Lines: “Nice to see you,” “It’s
a pleasure” or “You
look great” are all better than, “What’s
up,” “How
you doin” or “I like your hair.”
8.
Conversing: “Life’s good,” “I’m
well” and “It’s
all coming together” are much smarter phrases than, “Life
sucks,” “I’m
surviving” or “I’m falling apart.” Fake
it if you must.
9. Confronting: If you’re late or do
something inappropriate say, “Forgive
me. It will never happen again (period).” Never ignore
your mistakes.
10. Lastly, Leaving: Never leave abruptly
or on a downbeat. Always end with, “I had a great time,” “Can’t
wait to do it again” or “Let’s talk in
a few years.”
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