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1.
The frequency:
You don’t have to do it every week. You can agree on it just
once or just once a year.
2. The discussion:
You don’t have to talk about it every time you do it, if you
agree not to.
3. The cheating:
You’ll never get caught cheating or being cheated on because
of your new agreement.
4. The guilt:
You never have to feel (that) guilty about it because you agreed
it’s
now ok.
5. The togetherness:
You can agree to do it strictly with your partner or separately.
6.
The threeways or threesomes:
You can agree to invite a third person home for one night or for
one (happy) year.
7. The smarter sex:
Once you’ve agreed to be open, you’re both more likely
to practice safer, outside sex because the situation feels less criminal.
8.
The stimulation:
If your relationship isn’t very sexual or adventurous, this
agreement may put the flame back into everything.
9. The off button:
It’s not a jail sentence. You can agree to try it and end it
at any time.
10. Lastly, the respect:
You no longer have to sneak around. You can respect each
other, your trysts and your agreements.
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