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An open letter to the Mecklenburg County Commission

Chapel Hill, N.C., recently voted 8-0 against supporting an amendment to the state constitution that would ban same-sex marriages and civil unions.

Charlotte and Mecklenburg County, considered to be a much more cosmopolitan city by some and definitely a great deal larger in population and land mass, has the dubious honor of being one of the first counties to jump on board in support of that same state amendment.

Mecklenburg County Commission resolution supporting same-sex marriage resolution

Date: 6-1-04 • Votes: For=4 Against=3

Vote to approve a resolution supporting a bill in the North Carolina Senate seeking a constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage. North Carolina Sen. James Forrester (R-Gaston) is sponsoring the constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage. His proposal and a similar one in the House would need the votes of three-fifths of both the House and Senate before being put before voters.

Note the date this was approved. Note the split in vote mirrors the state of the Mecklenburg County Commission at the time: Republicans outnumbered Democrats. Times have changed and Democrats currently outnumber Republicans.

Albeit symbolic, this resolution is a shameful, embarrassing blot on the face of the Queen City — it shows contempt and prejudice sanctioned by the government.

Now that Democrats are in the majority, I call upon the Mecklenburg County Commission to repeal this resolution so that the rest of the world can see how compassionate — and truly cosmopolitan — this city can be.

In years past other anti-gay resolutions — generally spearheaded by Republican Bill James — have later been repealed. For example:

Arts Resolution

Date: 4-2-97 • Votes: For=5 Against=4

Vote for a resolution to stop public funding for arts productions that threaten “traditional family values.”

Resolution Repeal

Date: 2-16-99 • Votes: For=8 Against=1

Vote to repeal a resolution from 1997 that placed restrictions on funding to arts that portrayed “perverted forms of sexuality” that “deviate from the value and societal role of the traditional American family.”

Resolution Repeal

Date: 2-16-99 • Votes: For=8 Against=1

Vote to repeal a resolution from 1997 that placed restrictions on funding of counseling on sexuality for minors without parental consent. This restriction was set off by anti-gay fears that counselors might offer youth an excepting view of homosexuality.

Disdain and intolerance from Mayor Pat McCrory, County Commissioner James, former Commissioner Ruth Samuelson and former mayor turned U.S. Rep. Sue Myrick towards this region’s vibrant LGBT community makes our city seem like a small-minded, backwards lot.

I firmly believe that repealing this resolution would be a monumentally positive gesture for the city’s gay and lesbian community. In effect, telling them that they, too, are welcome to live as who they are in the place they choose to call home.

Furthermore, the move will capture national attention — no such resolution in support of a same-sex marriage amendment has been rescinded to date.

Imagine the positive publicity generated by such a move. Charlotte can be known around the world as a forward-thinking, open-minded place where people from all walks of life can live free of bigotry.

To the readers, I call upon you to contact the County Commissioners who can have an impact on this decision and let them know your feelings on the matter, too. You’ll find their contact information listed below.


Parks Helms
704-372-4884
phelms@helmshenderson.com

Wilhelmenia Rembert
704-336-2641
wirembert04@bellsouth.net

Jennifer Roberts
704-336-2574
roberjw@co.mecklenburg.nc.us

Norman A. Mitchell, Sr.
704-399-3061
normanam@aol.com

Valerie Woodard
704-537-8958
2woodard@bellsouth.net

Dumont Clarke
704-331-1051
dumontclarke@mvalaw.com


David Moore
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