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David Moore
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In memorium
I awoke to the sound of CNN’s Soledad O’Brien on Tuesday, Jan. 30. “This just in — we’ve got some breaking news here — the widow of slain civil rights leader Martin Luther King Jr., Coretta Scott King, has died.”

I rolled over and stared at the television as a mix of sadness and disbelief washed over me. I flashed back to the last time I spoke with King at the Peachtree Center Athletic Club in Atlanta. We were both in workout clothes but she was decidedly less sweaty and rumpled then I was. I had no way of knowing it would be the last time we would ever speak.

She knew I was part of the press and we had talked before on a few ocassions at various events — but I didn’t know her that well. I told her I had recently interviewed her son Martin for the publication I was editor of at the time.

“I saw that,” she said with a smile. “That was a nice piece.”

I thanked her for the compliment, made some quick joke about how she held up much better during a workout then I did and headed for the shower.

I was always a little bit awestruck when I crossed paths with King — she was an ardent supporter of the LGBT community and had genuinely lived through some of the most important moments of American history.

And now she’s gone. We’ll never hear her melodious voice resonate with words that call for equality for all again. I am profoundly affected by her loss.

Rev. Al Sharpton most succintly captured the sentiment I felt in a press release later that morning:

“Her death was a monumental loss to the nation and the world at large,” Sharpton said.”She was truly the first lady of the human rights movement. The only thing worse than losing her would be if we never had her.”

College portrait of Coretta Scott, sometime around 1945.
Over the years King had spoken out in support of gay and lesbian rights on numerous occassions. In 1998 — speaking to a Reuters reporter just a few days before the 30th anniversary of her husband’s assassination, Mrs. King said the civil rights leader’s memory demanded a strong stand for gay and lesbian rights.” I still hear people say that I should not be talking about the rights of lesbian and gay people and I should stick to the issue of racial justice,” she said. “But I hasten to remind them that Martin Luther King Jr. said, ‘Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.’ “I appeal to everyone who believes in Martin Luther King Jr.’s dream to make room at the table of brother and sisterhood for lesbian and gay people.”

Later that year, in Chicago, at the Palmer House Hilton Hotel, King called on the civil rights community to join in the struggle against homophobia and anti-gay bias. “Homophobia is like racism and anti-Semitism and other forms of bigotry in that it seeks to dehumanize a large group of people, to deny their humanity, their dignity and personhood,” King stated. “This sets the stage for further repression and violence that spread all too easily to victimize the next minority group.”

Also in 1998, King spoke at the 25th Anniversary Luncheon for the Lambda Legal Defense and Education Fund. “For many years now, I have been an outspoken supporter of civil and human rights for gay and lesbian people. Gays and lesbians stood up for civil rights in Montgomery, Selma, in Albany, Ga. and St. Augustine, Fla., and many other campaigns of the Civil Rights Movement,” she said. “Many of these courageous men and women were fighting for my freedom at a time when they could find few voices for their own, and I salute their contributions.”

At NGLTF’s Creating Change Conference in Atlanta in November of 2000, King said to a packed house: “We have a lot more work to do in our common struggle against bigotry and discrimination. I say ‘common struggle’ because I believe very strongly that all forms of bigotry and discrimination are equally wrong and should be opposed by right-thinking Americans everywhere. Freedom from discrimination based on sexual orientation is surely a fundamental human right in any great democracy, as much as freedom from racial, religious, gender, or ethnic discrimination.”

Of course most of us in the LGBT community are aware of her support for same-sex marriage — she responded to President Bush’s call for a federal marriage amendment as nothing short of bigotry and intolerance.

“Gay and lesbian people have families, and their families should have legal protection, whether by marriage or civil union,” King said. “A constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriages is a form of gay bashing and it would do nothing at all to protect traditional marriages.”

King was perhaps the greatest straight ally the LGBT community has ever known. In light of her passing and other world developments of late — from Samuel Alito’s confirmation to the continuing struggle in the Middle East, it’s hard for many of us — including myself — to see a light at the end of the tunnel.

These words from Coretta Scott King — spoken in a 1970 press conference — offer consolation in this difficult time: “Many despair at all the evil and unrest and disorder in the world today — but I see a new social order and I see the dawn of a new day.”

I hope the LGBT community sees that soon. I just wish Mrs. King could have been here to see it with us.


David Moore
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